Friday, May 29, 2009

Weddings...

... I just love 'em! If I could be a professional wedding attendee, I would be living a dream! But I get totally stressed just thinking of the before and afters of the ceremony/reception... so I would have to block that part out and simply enjoy the magic! I think I'm more of a "romantic" than I've been leading myself to believe!
Here's a pic of us on our wedding day (since I'm on the topic of weddings!)

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Pioneer Woman

I guess I should admit it... I'm a Pioneer Woman junkie (and it's all Jen's fault!)! I love Ree's (Pioneer Woman) website, her recipes, her photography, her humor, her love story. She just brightens my day! I showed her blog to Jonathan the other day (at his request!) and he didn't get it. "Meh" was his only response, but that's okay! As for this girl... I'll continue to be a faithful reader (and "waste" quite a bit of time in the process)!
-Her blog can be found in my "Blogs I like to peek at" list-

Ridin' along

Ahh... I am pretty convinced that spring is here now. It's been a L-O-N-G, and I repeat, L-O-N-G wait! We have really been enjoying the sunshine the last few days! Every evening we toss Alia in the bike trailer and hop on our bikes for a cruise! It's so fun! I am SO SO glad we purchased the bike trailer... and also very glad that we got our bikes for free!
Get this... last night I mowed the WHOLE lawn at one time. Not a big deal to you, maybe, but I've never done that (in my whole life)! I used the new big mower and was done in about an hour! That's amazing! I'm pretty pleased with myself and must say... I admire the straight(ish) lines every time I look out the kitchen window!! I know... I'm such a nerd!
Well (if my lil girl will actually go to bed soon) I'm planning to head outside and soak up the last of the sunshine on the verandah. I'm looking forward to some quiet time and reflection.
I think this kind of weather just forces a person to smile...I love it!

Monday, May 25, 2009

Water, water everywhere...

The good news is our sump pump has a 5 year warranty. The bad news is it left us high and dry. Wait - dry isn't quite the right word! High and wet... really, really wet!
We got quite the amount of rain last night/today, so had I been on the ball I probably would have went to the basement to make sure the sump pump was working. But... it's fairly new, we've never really had problems before, and I was focused on getting all the party stuff cleaned up (and a nap!). So I was quite surprised to find 1" or so of water covering the basement floor when I finally made my way down there.
I phoned Jon in somewhat of a panic and he was able to get home in about 1/2 hour. He brought home a borrowed pump and started squeegeeing... only to discover the 2nd pump was no longer working! So off we go to town to try and replace our pump. We were quite surprised to find the one we needed in stock and the exchange was as pleasant as could be! Plus we had a coupon for a free pizza and thought it was a good night for one, so that made me happy!
Well... the basement floor is nice and clean! And we've taken this as a hint that it's time to clear out a few things. I've gotten rid of all the empty boxes from Alia's baby gear (Jon has assured me that keeping them just to have all the original boxes when we have a garage sale in 10 years is hardly worth it!) and we've put a number of things up for sale, so that's good!
I wouldn't say I would choose for this to happen again... but it's high time our basement got decluttered and I guess we needed a kick in the pants to get that done!

Big Birthday Bash!

Alia's birthday party went really good! Sometimes I plan and plan an event... then it doesn't go at all like I thought, so I'm sad (possibly a little whiny) and poor Jon has to listen to all the details that didn't go like I wanted them to. Anyhow... this was NOT one of those times!
Alia had so much fun! She opened lots of presents, played with some of her best friends, ate some icing (she never really tasted cake I don't think!), and had somewhat of a balloon overload! Every time she saw another balloon she would get all excited and try to say "balloon"... it kind of comes out like "ba ba oo". It's just so cute... and I never get tired of her cute little attempt!
Here's the cake that I made for the big party. The first tier was a white cake with raspberry and white chocolate filling. The second tier was a white cake with hazelnut filling and the third tier was a smash cake for Alia. If you can't tell... it's supposed to be a purse! The cake was NOTHING like I had in my head - but I've come to the realization that I'm no cake making pro! Oh well, Alia didn't seem to mind and people ate the cake with a smile!
I couldn't really find a banner like I wanted, so I made this one to match the pink and brown polka dot theme.
As party favors I made these cookies with an "A" on them... (I got the idea from my brother and his wife's wedding - I just thought they were so fun!)
Our simple menu consisted of carrots, little hoagies, caramelized bacon wrapped hot dogs, tortilla chips and taco dip, cucumber sandwiches, and olives.

Wowsers, this girl got presents... I was shocked to see how many people brought one despite the "no gifts" message on the invite! Next time I'll have to be more clear I guess!
Auntie Jer and Uncle Joe gave Alia some "Johnny Poppers". They are super cute cowboy boots made by John Deere (a definite plus in Daddy's book)! Alia just loved modeling them around... aren't they so adorable?!

The day ended up being gorgeous, so the party was moved outside! Despite the fact that we have a big verandah we all crammed on one itsy bitsy part to get the maximum amount of sunshine! That's how life is up here though... ya don't want a single drop of sunshine to go to waste!
Alia never actually smashed her "smash cake"! She daintily picked at the icing... little by little by little! (And slowly I might add!) I, the one who hates messes, even had the urge to take her little hand and plop it right in the cake! But I resisted... as did 80% of the other party guests, I think! We moved Alia, high chair and all, inside to finish her delicacy, while we all picked out our pieces! It didn't look like she was going to pick up the pace any... so we just let her be!
Well... I still can't believe she's 1, but she is, and every day I'm thankful for her! This little lady has blessed us more than I'll ever be able to describe - what a pure joy to have her in our lives!

Thursday, May 21, 2009

May long

Mom and Arnie were able to fly out from Alberta to join us for May long weekend! It was a quick trip, but great to see them a bit. On Sunday we had a yummy BBQ at Jer and Joe's and were able to eat outside.... glorious indeed!
Then we had Faspa here at our place Sunday evening. Over all it was a very relaxing day - which is what a Sunday is supposed to be I guess!
Monday (which in theory should be nice, sunny, and warm) was cool and windy. Our plans were to work outside... but I chose to stay put in the house! Jon went ahead and spent most the day out there... he was able to mow the yard for the first time this season! He was pumped since he got to try out the new mower deck... he's so funny!!
As you can tell... there wasn't much excitement over our Victoria Day weekend, but it was good none the less!

Friday, May 15, 2009

Peek

Ali and I were just being silly during lunch yesterday... here she is playing "Peek a boo" with me. Isn't she just a cutey?!?!

Water is coming, water is coming!!

This is what a saw when I looked out my window a few minutes ago!! I just started squealing and was bursting at the seams to share the news ...water is coming, water is coming!
For those who have no clue what I'm talking about. We have been hauling water for the past 3 1/2 years... which means we have to conserve every gallon we can. We have a plastic tank in the basement that is our water supply and finally, finally, finally that huge monster can be hauled out of here! Bigger laundry room, check. Long bubble baths, check. Not worrying about running out of water, check. Oh the list could go on and on!

He loves me...

Jon surprised me with a new Monopoly game yesterday! To the ordinary person this probably wouldn't be a big deal - but for me it's huge! You see... I LOVE Monopoly (my poor family has suffered many games with me over the years!) and my husband well... hates it! So, with this game comes a little unspoken "Yeah... I'll play ONE GAME with you" kind of thing! Woohoo!

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

UUUCCCKKK

It's raining. Usually I don't mind rain, and actually enjoy it... but today I am 110% unmotivated. Make that 125% ... it's ridiculous. My house, which was quite clean yesterday, is in a state of disaster. It's amazing how one itsy bitsy girl can make it as such, only 1/2 an hour after she wakes up.
I haven't accomplished much today, at all. Thankfully Jon won't care! At least I know what's for supper... so it will look like I've actually done something when he gets home!
I think I'll go call my mom and maybe she can get me going!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Out with the old and in with the new

Alia actually wore through a pair of pants because she crawls so much. Isn't that crazy? (Notice the good sized holes in her pants in this pic!)

The same day that I tossed the pants, I bought Alia her new car seat. This purchase was a big decision for me! I researched, read reviews, talked to friends, and was actually dreaming about car seats! So... Alia is now facing forward and it's a welcome change for all of us!

"It's a Good Thing You're Cute"...

I must admit, I've found myself thinking that more than once over the last week!

Thursday night - we're all ready for a bath and I noticed Alia soiled her diaper. Okay, not a big deal. I much prefer it now rather than 2 minutes from now! So I go upstairs to change her and instead of putting on a diaper, I figure I'll just rush Alia downstairs to the bath tub in her birthday suite. We made just a milli-second pit stop to get a tissue. Mistake. I notice my side getting very warm and actually hear trickling on the carpet... she couldn't hold it in I guess. So needless to say she soaked through the 3 layers that I had on, and we were both in need of a bath!

Friday morning - I was all finished packing for our WY trip. In the process Alia found a blue/red western type necklace that I had out and wanted to play with it. Why not?!? So she carried it downstairs with us and continued to play while I did other things. A few minutes later I turned around and saw a smurf of a girl looking up at me. She must have put it in her mouth (why I didn't think of this, I have no idea!) and the dye got on her face and hands. So, we're only minutes away from loading up the Escape to head out and I have a blue problem to deal with! I took the necklace away and started filling the bathtub. Not a big deal until the dye wouldn't come OFF!! I tried scrubbing with baby soap, real soap, and finally my micro fibre washcloth! I think the washcloth did the best.... but her face and hands were still a bit blue when we left! Thankfully by the time we actually got to WY it was all off but her shirt will probably never recover! Although that necklace is one of my favs... I think it's going to the thrift store!

A few minutes ago - since Alia has been bathing in a sink the last few days I thought I would let her take a long leisurely bath. She's set with some bath toys so I thought I would use this time to unpack the toiletries bag. It only took a few minutes, I turn around.... and Alia had, uhhhh, "chunked" in the bath tub, if you get my drift. She wasn't the most pleased to have her bath time so rudely interrupted while I drained, disinfected, and refilled the bath tub... but was happy as a lark that she got two baths in a matter of minutes!

Ahhh....

Wyoming was so good. It was just what I needed! I was able to check off everything on my "looking forward to" list and it was lovely.

We had a great trip down and made it in about 14 1/2 hours... which I think is pretty good considering we're traveling with a 1 year old! And I'm proud to report that I drove from 9 p.m. - 1 a.m. thanks to sunflower seeds. If I would have known how helpful those little things are in aiding awakeness while driving, I would have started crunchin' a long time ago! But yeah - since marrying Jon I have become quite a wuss in the distance driving department so that stretch was an accomplishment for me!

All three of us were able to nap for a bit once we rolled in (around 6 am), so that was a huge blessing! We toured the base and saw the beautiful new log administration building! OHHH, it's worlds better than the dingy offices before... it looks amazing! There is still some finishing work to do, but at least it's usable now! There was a branding going on (that we didn't really know about) and there weren't many staff on base, so we decided to cruise Meeteetse a bit. I showed Alia all the "sights" and we went to the Elkhorn for lunch (sadly enough the Outlaw wasn't open yet!).... it was good, plus Ali got to experience her first bar of the weekend!

We dropped off Alia at a friends house in Cody so we could actually enjoy the ceremony, and it was absolutely beautiful! Nice, elegant yet simple, and so Brett and Angie! Of course I cried, but I just couldn't help myself... after all this time Brett has found his love... and they are PERFECT for each other!! I'm so honored that I got to be part of their day! It was great to see everyone at the reception and catch up a bit, and whenever the CWAM gang is gathered there's gonna be lots of fun... and dancing! So yeah... I think two-stepping is officially one of my favorite things. Jon and I tried, but my husband isn't the most coordinated when it comes to dancing, (he totally admits this!) so we're going to have to keep working on it! One of these days he'll be able to whirl me around the dance floor!

On Sunday we went to Foursquare church and I was beyond blessed! It was so good to see everyone, catch up, and hear Kenny preach a little bit! I think Foursquare will always be "my" church, if ya know what I mean. It is one of the only churches I have been to that I can just walk in the door and instantly feel God. I can't describe how connected I feel to that church... but it will always be special to me!

We had a reunion/pot bless lunch and hung out with some CWAMer's for the afternoon. It too was such a blessing! Sunday evening we played some pool and ate beer battered fries (well... I ate them... pretty much everyone else just nibbled! I don't even want to know how many baskets I actually consumed! My excuse was I didn't know when I would get them again!)Yum... SO GOOD! This was Alia's 2nd bar experience of the weekend! I really can't decide if I'm an awful mother for bringing her with... but in Meeteetse that's just the way things are. She sure enjoyed watching the pool games though!

We were able to visit with Kurt and Heidi at their place for a few hours when we got back. It was such a highlight for us to see their vision for the ministry and to connect with them a bit more. Whenever we chat with those two we are encouraged, challenged and blessed! They are an amazing couple!

Jon joined the guys for prayer/breakfast at 5:30 the next morning so I thought we'd be on the road bright and early! Nope... we ended up leaving 2 hours after I originally planned, and that's okay (visiting it way more important!). We had a great trip back but didn't get home until close to 1 am because of the late departure and a little shopping in Billings!

Overall I am SO glad we went! Jon was ready to pack up and relocate to Meeteetse, I think! Both he and I have a heart for the ministry down there and were encouraged to go back and see what's happening. We would like to possibly go back for a week this summer to help out, but we'll see if God works that out. We are SO blessed that Jon gets the summers off and are hoping to make missions trips a reality during that time! This time was just a great reminder to use all that we have to glorify Him... I am so thankful!

By the way, this is the only pic we took of our whole trip - isn't that pitiful?!?

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Alia's birthday invites

Here are the invitations I made for Alia's birthday party... now it's time for some serious cake decorating practice!

BFF's


Isn't this picture the cutest!? My best friend brought her two kids over for a visit yesterday and I had such a fun/relaxing time! The girls rode together in the bike trailer for our walk... by the end, this is what we found!

For some reason...

... the fact that Alia is going up and down the stairs is huge for me. Today I quickly went upstairs to get something and on my way down met Alia half way. She decided she would follow me. I know - it's time to start putting up the baby gate (which I still have no desire to do). What surprised me was that she started backing down when she saw I was heading in the opposite direction she was.

On Saturday Jon and I had a "stairs" lesson with her. We made sure she could go all the way up and then we taught we to go down them properly.... like 3 times. I'm just really surprised she remembered the lesson! She's not a little baby anymore - I know that's a good thing but it doesn't make it any easier to swallow!

Put on your boots...

we're heading to Wyoming! I'm so excited! I have been packing and doing laundry all day (which reminds me, the dryer buzzer just went off) and getting everything organized for our trip! It's just a short little jaunt, but a lovely one none the less!
We are leaving after school tomorrow, driving through the night for Brett and Angela's wedding on Saturday, will see CWAM friends on Sunday, then we'll turn around and head north on Monday. I'm actually kind of wondering about our sanity during/after this trip - but we'll manage!

10 Things I'm looking forward to:
1 - seeing awesome friends from CWAM (this should count as more than 1... probably like 10 in and of itself!)
2 - seeing the mountains
3 - getting that "anxious, happy, butterfly" feeling when we're almost there
4 - driving through Meeteetse
5 - showing Alia where I used to live
6 - seeing the new log administration building at the base
7 - eating beer battered fries at the Outlaw (I'm crossing my fingers!)
8 - seeing the utter joy and happiness on Brett's face during the wedding (he is beside himself he's so happy!)
9 - taking advantage of the long drive to chat/reconnect with my love
10 - wearing my blue dress to the wedding... it's my favorite and there's never a reason to wear it around here!

Pictures to follow!

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

New wheels all around

So Jon "surprised" me the other night with a new truck. I had no idea what to say. The first question was... "How much?" Well, being the wheelin' dealin' husband he is, Jon bought the truck for a couple thousand dollars from a guy broken down on the side of the road. Right on!

I am now going to be driving a Ford F-250 crew cab long box pick up. This thing is practically the length of a limousine... it's crazy! But, I wanted a cheaper vehicle and had been contemplating a truck - so my husband delivers! It needs some work, thus the price - I'm not sure Jon could ever buy a vehicle that didn't need a little fixing up! But in a week or two I hope to be driving it! The downer... it won't even fit in our garage. It's 6" too long - so we'll be selling it before winter comes!

Alia also gets to ride in a new get up. We bought her a Chariot bike trailer/stroller from a private seller. It is in MINT condition and I feel like I got a very reasonable price! So now we can cruise around, regardless of windiness, and she can just enjoy the view! I am SO pleased with this purchase and Alia loves when we get it out! So... exercise is a fun reality now!

Thursday, April 23, 2009

House Hunt

No... that sounds wrong. We're not really hunting, we're just keeping our eyes open! I looked at another house-to-be-moved tonight. It was a HUGE ole' farmhouse with lots of potential... but lots of work needed too. The downstairs was lovely and completely renovated.... but motivation must have been lacking on the way up the stairs! I totally understand, but I'm just not sure we should pick up the baton! So.... this one shall to pass.
Part of me feels discouraged, and part of me feels relieved. I think we're done with houses to be moved for now. It is just SOOO much work! Plus finding land is the real issue. So we will continue to look for a place outside of Morden. They are getting fewer and farther between though.
But...I'm thankful we have the house we have and I just need to focus on the positives! Yeah.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

I'm back!

It's been a few weeks since I've blogged and I have to say... I've missed it. It's good to be back!

"When I'm happy my ears wiggle...

... and my foot taps up and down." That's the song that has been floating around our house, thanks to Gramma and Grampa Great who got a song singing Easter bunny for Alia! It's a catchy little jingle! Alia had her first Easter egg hunt and LOVED it!! She caught on pretty quick to the game! She would spot an egg, crawl crawl crawl as fast as she could to get it, and then we would clap and cheer wildly when she picked it up! But when all was said and done the poor girl had to cash in all her candy for cheerios! Oh the life of a one year old! Here's our little family on Easter morning!
We had a great time with my folks over their spring break! They arrived on Saturday and stayed for a little over a week. We didn't do as much as we would have liked... our town isn't exactly the tourist attraction of the world, ya know! And since my parents have been here a number of times, we've basically run out of cool things to show them! They said they didn't mind, and all they wanted was to be with us! Awwww!!! What a parent thing to say hey?!?! :) So we caught up on chatting, playing with Ali, getting into some Euchre tournys, and relaxing in general! It was nice for Alia to have some quality Gramma and Grampa time and for me to connect with my Mom and Dad! It's never enough time though. It seems like I'm always just getting back to "normal" with them, and then it's time to leave. I hate that! Distance is an annoying thing, but for now that's our life!
We also had an early birthday party for Ali while Gramma and Grampa were here! It was fun to watch her open gifts and turn her nose up at the cake! So yeah... I have much practice to do in the cake department before the main event! I'm going to try working with fondant and see if that produces better results! At least it tasted good and we all had a fun evening! Plus Alia walked away with a super cool set of wheels! A new riding giraffe... I, ummm, I mean she.... loves it!

Florida, the Bahamas, and beyond...

We had such a great trip! It was a busy week, but we managed to have our share of relaxation!

We got to Minneapolis with only one minor detour and even got to visit with some friends for dinner in Fargo. Our hotel was probably the nicest hotel we've ever been in and they treated us with so much hospitality. We will definitely stay there again when we're in the twin cities!

Alia did great on all the flights and got her share of attention from the other passengers and stewards! Oh my that girl has had attention for the past 2+ weeks!


Anyhow, we met up with the rest of the family and then let the buffets begin. Almost EVERY meal was a buffet! How we could eat so much and still function is beyond me!

We ended up going to a GREAT church service Sunday morning. We were greeted with smiles and open arms, even though we were obviously not part of the congregation! We all left challenged, encouraged, and very thankful to be part of their fellowship. We spent the rest of the day by the pool, going on a walk, and of course... eating!

On Monday we went to the beach and soaked up the sun for awhile before boarding the cruise ship. Alia absolutely loved the beach! She quite enjoyed the sand too! She ate her share of sandy cheerios, licked some sandy licorice, and simply tried eating it by the handful! She had sand ALL over! Every time we changed or bathed her for the next few days we found more sand.... crazy!

The cruise was our highlight of the week. We boarded early afternoon on Monday, sailed all night, and arrived in the Bahamas the next morning! We could have spent a few more days there I think... but it was nice to see more of the world! We only saw the touristy parts of the Bahamas - the beach and shops galore! Jon's one wish was to see the engines on the boat. Despite sneaking around both nights and getting VERY close, he and Arnie weren't able to get in. Apparently guests aren't allowed near them since 9-11. So... he was a bit disappointed but had a very good chat with the 2nd in command. That made up for it, I think!

We disembarked Wednesday morning and scooted off to Orlando where we spent the rest of the trip. After much deliberation, we decided not to do the whole amusement park thing. We decided we'll take in Disney when all the kids are a bit older and can appreciate it more. We went to Campus Crusade's International headquarters for some info on the Jesus film and went on an air boat ride. We met our "goal" of seeing some gators while in Florida and got a glimpse of the Everglades... ya know, I think I'm okay with not having those critters in my back yard!

We left early Friday morning and made the long trek back to snowy, white, cold Manitoba. I couldn't believe it! Some welcome hey?! We could hardly get in the driveway! Oh well... no complaining, at all. We had such a great time with family and it was a trip we'll never forget! (More pics are on Facebook if you want to see them!)

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Florida... Dream Vacation??

We've bought, packed, tanned, planned, hoped, and waited... and now it's here. We leave tomorrow. Well, we're SUPPOSED to leave tomorrow! As I write, the snow is whirling around and continues to grace us with it's presence. Fargo is under a state of emergency due to flooding, and the highways from here to Minneapolis are shut down in a number of places. We decided to fly out of Minneapolis to save some major mulah, and didn't think 8 hours of driving was that bad. Now I am totally regretting that decision. Not the saving money part, but the driving part. I have no idea how we're getting down there. I guess head East until things start clearing up, then turn South and hope we're near the airport! Thankfully Jon is taking care of the getting-there-part. I actually stopped packing today because I honestly didn't see how this vacation thing would work. But Jon called within a few minutes of that, and was full of optimism. I am so glad that he sees the positive in every situation!!!
So... pray for us if you remember. We're heading out tomorrow at 2 pm,and our flight leaves Saturday morning. Florida will be a very very welcome sight...

The Things that Come Out of my Mouth...

Today, as I was picking up something from a friend's house, I made a disturbing comment. She too had the same "problem" with her daughter being small when she was Alia's age. During the course of our conversation I said "Yeah... Alia looks a little retarded when she's wearing pants that are too short." How could I say something like that about my own daughter? And ya know what? I didn't say it just once, but found myself saying it twice. When I got in the vehicle I was appalled. Ali always looks cute in my eyes... whether she's buck naked or dressed to the nines. And more so... the word "retarded" is such an insensitive word to use.
The more I thought about it the more I realized that comment was said out of what other people think... not what I think. I know... this isn't really a big deal, but for some reason it's opened my eyes a little.
I hate that I care so much about what other people think. My husband doesn't care and is himself no matter the situation. If I could just get that, then my life would be radically different. The freedom that comes from living for an audience of One...
But on a different note... Alia tried macaroni and cheese for the first time today and LOVED it! She couldn't get enough! It totally made my day...
Oh... and here's a pic of Alia's "short" pants...

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Pampered

I've done it, am doing it, will be doing it... whatever! I'm a Pampered Chef consultant. I've been thinking about it for a long time and finally decided now is the time. I'm quite excited about it! Although today I've been feeling very "stay-at-home-momish" since making this decision.
I've really been needing something else. I love staying home with Alia... but I need more to my day than cleaning, laundry, peek a boo, and the ever classic "it's already 4:30 and I haven't started dinner". No, I know this won't magically complete my life, but it will at least give me goals that I can work for, time away from the house, etc.
I'm really looking forward to this!! I don't care about making money... just the little extra challenge will be welcomed!
So, wish me "luck" and let the cooking begin!

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Shopping... or the lack there of

Today was possibly the most disappointing shopping day ever. Actually... now that I think about it... there have been VERY VERY few successful shopping trips since the arrival of our little Pinkster Pants. I think it's because I'm always rushed. Always... even when someone else is watching Alia and tells me to take my time... I still feel rushed. And it doesn't help that we live so far from any mentionable shopping facilities. Anyhow - I'm sad about my excursion today.
My goal was to find a new car seat (as Alia is definitely pushing the limits in hers), an umbrella stroller for Florida, and a few clothes items for me and my girl. That's not a huge daunting list. But I came home with 1 pair of pants for the kiddo and 2 gifts for other people's kiddos. I can't help but pout a little just thinking about it!
I've never been the crazy shopping type... I'm too frugal for that... but I think just the occasional non-grocery shopping adventure would be nice. For the past 7 years I have lived at LEAST 1 1/2 hours from a decent mall, and my wardrobe is showing it!
Anyhow... internet shopping here we come - again.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Vista Re-visit...

So it turns out that Vista Print didn't know I like music after all... Jen and Matt did!! Remember the "free" package that I got around my birthday? It was from Jon's sister and brother-in-law!! At any rate, I am still blessed by all the goodies and we got a good chuckle over the misunderstanding! I am amazed at Jen and Matt's thoughtfulness... they always know the perfect gift to give!

Spring Fashion Show

Clothes wise it has always been a bit annoying that Alia is small for her age. There are benefits in other areas... but it's frustrating to buy clothes for a certain season, just to have them be too big! For instance, I just bought a bunch of spring/summer clothes from Kohls (they had a FANTASTIC sale!), only to find that none of them will fit Alia for our Florida trip. As I was making room in her closet, I found quite a few summer 3-6 month outfits that we had been given. I thought I would be saving them for the next babe, but low and behold, they fit!! So this morning we had a fashion show of her new vacation wardrobe! She was actually a pretty good sport about the whole thing... she got her "dream" of running around in a diaper for awhile and I got to "oohh and ahhh" about how cute she is!
Ali also discovered a few of her birthday presents in the closet! I don't think she'll care, nor remember, in a few months when she unwraps them... but it was fun to see her playing with them in the boxes! In the midst of clothing all over the floor she also managed to find a dead fly, then proceeded to taste it. I almost got sick! We got it all out of her mouth, I think, and I made her drink lots of water... oh it was gross! How can these little tikes find everything they aren't supposed to?!?
This afternoon I tried on several summer dresses for our trip. Yeah... it wasn't quite as fun as the morning modeling session. I don't take after my daughter in the smallness department, and was quite disappointed to find that my favorite, favorite, favorite black dress will no longer zip up completely. *sigh* What's a girl to do?

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Picky, Picky...

So... I think we might have a picky eater on our hands. I've said that a picky eater will go mighty hungry at our home and I'm sure my parents are just busting a gut about now! Ya see... I have a small reputation in our family as being a tad picky, and a bit stubborn as a child, but I've long since grown out of it!!!! The story goes (and okay, fine...I do have a few memories that I try to forget!) that I would sit hours upon hours just to avoid eating the meat on my plate. I still remember sitting under this bright "interigation" lamp in the kitchen watching the rest of my family enjoy their evening, while I sat yawning until bedtime! Anyhow...
Up to this point Alia has been such a great eater. I've actually been surprised how easy it's been for her to try new tastes! But, with a new day comes new challenges! If Ali could just eat Cheerio's, bananas, and cheese she would be a happy girl. It's everything else that she turns up her little nose at and gives you this "You want me to eat what" look.
Last night Jon tried to get just one piece of broccoli in her mouth. Alia twisted and turned, flailed her little arms, shook her head back and forth at 20 mph, spit repeatedly, and grumbled loudly in protest. Finally Jon got the broccoli in, leaned back in triumph... and Alia spit it out. She's smart ya know. She figured she would at least humor Daddy, but she has to get the last word in!
So, I too will blame this new phase on teething and hope that it will pass. Until then... each meal time is a new drama to be enjoyed!

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

The Ped Egg

So my feet have been really bad for awhile now. I got a pedicure this past summer and the pedicurist (?) was "in awe" of how bad my calluses and dry skin were. I like to think it was "awe" but one should probably insert "grossed out" there. Anyhow... they were bad. I have been quite embarrassed by them for awhile now, but not any more!
Jon got me a Ped Egg for my birthday (correction, I ordered it and then said it was from him for my birthday!!). It's a wonderful little contraption! It arrived in the mail yesterday... it was a little delayed thanks to good ole' Canadian customs. So last night, after Alia went to bed, I had a Ped Egg party. WOW! It took me all night just to do 1 1/2 feet... I didn't quite get the 2nd one done. But what a difference! Jon was very impressed, to say the least (although he referred to it as a cheese grater, which was a little disturbing)!
Plus, I watched Anne of Green Gables while filing away.... what a terrific evening!
All in all, I think I would gladly be on a Ped Egg infomercial if asked. It really is that great of a product. Cheap, no pain, wonderful results, voila... I'm convinced!

Friday, March 6, 2009

Late Nights

So last night Alia was up from 11:30 pm to 3 am. This is definetely not normal for her, so I feel like I'm a bit of a wuss about it... I like my 8 hours of sleep, let's just put it that way!
I have no idea what the drama was about... gas, teething, or just a Goldfish craving... only Ali knows and she's not telling. I've realized that it's not so much the being up part that is frustrating, it's the disappointment of hearing her cry, again, after being in bed for 3 minutes.
My best didn't come out last night. I was plain mad. At Jon for snoring while I'm up (although in his defence he did get up a few times too), at the computer for not turning on when browsing would have been fun about then, and at this babe for not closing those sweet eyes of hers. And yes, I was mad at myself too. Why can't I be the patient, gentle, soothing mother when the night stars blaze? Or just half the time... I would take that even!
It's mornings like this that I feel like such a bad mom... and it's not a lovely feeling. Last night, as I was complaining to God about a whole host of things, I remembered that each day is a new day. AAHHHH! That's music for my soul and for my sanity. I am so encouraged by that fact!
So instead of fuming and rocking harder by the hour, Alia and I had a little tea party. Okay... there was no tea, at all... but we whipped out the sippy cup, Goldfish, and Cheez-its. I figured we both deserved a break. So we rocked away by the glow of the night light and nibbled to our hearts content. As a result we both went to bed happier (though I was a bit guilty for eating in the middle of the night!).
This morn Alia work up with a bright smile and squeals of delight... it's amazing how quickly I can forget the frustration in the light of a beautiful smile!

Monday, March 2, 2009

Birthday

I think I’ve reached adulthood. Instead of being completely spoiled on my birthday (which, this will sound selfish… is usually what has happened!) I spent most the day tearing out our bathroom floor, helping with installation and cleaning up from the mess. In the end I was very pleased with the results… but I have to admit, I was pretty pouty during the process! Once we were finished with the floor we all boogied to get ready, and headed into town for dinner and a little shopping! It was so fun... I just love strolling through the aisles with my little family and no agenda! For supper we went to a Mennonite buffet… YUM… so good! We sat kinda close to the serving line and Alia had a ball making faces at everyone as they passed. I honestly think she thought they were coming to see her!
Someone had written me a message earlier in the day saying “Keep your eyes and ears open, because God wants to bless you today.” I thought to myself, “Ha… I’m cleaning all day, how can He bless me in that?” Anyhow… as we were eating our supper an older gentleman, that Jon hasn’t seen in a while, came to chat with us. As they were talking he opened his wallet, pulled out a $20… completely out of the blue… and tossed it on the table. Jon asked what he was doing and he just said he felt that he should pay for our supper, or at least part of it. Jon said that he didn’t have to and all that… and finally just said “Thanks”. Jon said it was my birthday and we were out celebrating. This made the guy smile and he just said “Be blessed.” So… God has a way of spoiling us, even when we don't think it's possible! The act of paying for our supper was a simple gesture… but I was/am oh so thankful!

Escape Artist

Oh this girl… she’s a clever one! I figured, ya know what… it’s time she has some good ole’ play-by-herself time. Mind you, we don’t have a baby gate- I have never wanted one, still don’t and will try to avoid it at all costs. That being said… I think I might need to reconsider. Anyhow, I made a “gate” in the living room with her exersaucer and her bouncy chair. Kinda lame, I know… but they were the closest usuable items. Well low and behold… this smarty pants figured out that if she crawled in between the legs of the exersaucer she was home free. So, she outsmarted me… even after three adaptations!!
All day it’s been her discovering new cupboards, and “no, no” items! I thought the living room was safe… think again. She found the games/DVD cupboard. I peeked into the L.R. expecting to find a little angel playing quietly with her toys… instead I found her sorting through card games. And she was going straight to Daddy’s Dukes of Hazzard DVD’s next. He wouldn’t have been impressed! So… now we’re learning that the entertainment center is off limits!
As I write this she is upstairs “napping”. I hear her talking away and having a grand time. She has discovered she can stand up in her crib. Yes, it’s a quite cute, but what a pain! For the last 20 minutes (the whole time she would normally be napping) she stands up, I check on her, lay her back down, then she stands up, and I check on her… and the cycle continues. So I moved her to her Pac N Play (with higher sides… the crib needs to be lowered TONIGHT!) and am just letting her go!
She’s a mover and shaker I tell ya. So… I’m on my toes! And yes… it’s more work… but it’s fun!

Friday, February 27, 2009

A Quarter of a Century!

Tomorrow is the day… I’m actually really excited about turning 25! I feel like it’s such a great time in life… now 30… that might be hard for me, but for now I’m happy about being a ¼ of a century old!
As I look back over my life I am so thankful. Why God chose me, blesses me, and loves me I will never know… but I can see His hand in every area. I’ll spare you the life story… but it seems He has just given me my dreams on a platter.
My family being saved changed the course of all our lives. Maybe it’s just because I can’t remember before then… but the dreams start at that point! An incredible family (even with the quarks!), great lifelong high school friends, Wyoming (the good parts, not necessarily the bad ones!), being able to travel to so many places, marrying an amazing man (though I have to admit… Canada was never part of my plan!), having such a wonderful daughter…
The more I’ve been thinking about it, the more I’m aware that this is where I’ve always wanted to be. As I “dreamed” of being 25 (back in grade school/high school and such) I always wanted to be a wife and a mother. I never cared about a career – although I am getting closer at knowing what I want to be when I grow up! Some people scoff at that… and I feel that I have to defend myself. That gets me right ticked off, and it’s in those times that my husband reminds me of the desires of my heart.
Blessed sums up the last ¼ century of my life. I am in complete awe. The awe that makes me fall on my knees before my Maker. If the last 25 years have been this good (and most those I don’t remember... I’m realizing I have a really bad memory) than the next 25 can only get better, right? That’s what I’m believing.

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Take # 2

So last night, around 9:45 pm, Jon mentioned he had a 20 minute presentation due for his “Teaching Variations” class. Not a big deal, right? It needs to arrive in the big city by Wednesday, which means it’s crunch time. So… I whip out the camera, grumbling and cranky I must admit (I had hoped to get to bed early). We arrange the kitchen and I start videoing. We had to start over twice due to phone calls… but it turned out okay. As I was listening about “diesel engine components” I realized that Jon really does love this. He may not even realize it yet… but I think teaching is one of his gifts. He loves engines, he knows so much about them, and he is able to pass that passion on to the next generation while having fun in the process. When all was said and done he could only drag it out for 15 minutes, so tonight we’re doing a retake... making the deadline even tighter. But… I’m looking forward to holding that camera perfectly still for 20 minutes. Why? Because I’m seeing a little more of who my husband is… and I am in more in love with him because of it.

Pizza and Penelope

After M.O.M.'s on Tuesday my best friend Jen invited me over for a birthday lunch! And to my delight she ordered pizza from Pizza Hotline... my new favorite "Canadian" pizza! We shared a HUGE pizza between the two of us and visions of kids napping danced in our heads. Our goal was to watch the movie "Penelope" in peace and quiet. We tried not to make it obvious that we were rushing the kids to sleepy land... and it worked! Quietness for an hour and a half - that's a new record for us!
It was such a great afternoon! Penelope was a fun movie and a lil reminder to be happy with who we are - pig snout and all.
Jen also surprised me with a beautiful necklace and 3 episodes of "Extreme Home Makeover". So... I carried on the festivities and watched 2 of them after Ali went to bed! SO NICE! Over all it was a relaxed day that I look back on and smile!
Thanks again Jen!

Monday, February 23, 2009

Muffin Success

So, I must say, my muffins turned out quite lovely! (see previous post - Muffin Flop to avoid confusion) I even tested two just to be sure. Although, really, it was a sacrifice because only 9 will fit in the container... but there's still one lone one sitting on the cooling rack... life's dilemma's!
Well, my non-stick muffin pans are officially retired from muffin duty. I think my oven and I will have a better relationship now too... maybe not so much name calling and such!
All in all, I'm happy... maybe the touch isn't completely gone after all!

Well with my soul

Yesterday our pastor had a really good message. The main jist of it - we aren’t supposed to put all our energy, resources, and time into the life we’re living now… but to store treasures in heaven. We were challenged to be dead to this life and living for the next. Also to have friends that draw us closer to the Lord and not away from Him. But... the story that really got me was that of Horatio G. Spafford.

Horatio G. Spafford was a lawyer in Chicago that lived during the 19th century. During his life, he experienced many personal tragedies. In 1870, the Spaffords' only son was killed by scarlet fever at the age of four. A year later they were ruined financially by the Great Chicago Fire. Horatio Spafford decided that he and his family needed a break from the events that had happened recently and went to England for a break.
In 1873 when Horatio Spafford's wife and four daughters were leaving from New York to England, the ship that they were travelling on, 'Ville de Havre' struck another ship and sunk, killing his four daughters. His wife, the only survivor, sent him a telegram 9 days after the ship left the harbor of New York, with two words, "Saved alone".
Horatio Spafford, upon hearing the news, left for England to join his wife. As the ship he was on passed the place where his daughters perished, the captain called him to the bridge. "A careful reckoning has been made", he said, "and I believe we are now passing the place where the de Havre was wrecked. The water is three miles deep." That night, in his cabin, Horatio penned the lyrics to one of the most famous hymns of all time.

When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou has taught me to say,

It is well, it is well, with my soul.
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, with my soul,
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

You know the rest of the song. Our challenge… is it well with your soul? After a week of feeling sorry for myself, wishing we had more family around, feeling cooped up and restless, and generally being just a tad bit cranky, I was very humbled. Wherever I am, whomever I’m with, and whether life is rosy or a little dim, my desire is to be able to say… it is well with my soul.

Flowers and Chatter


On Saturday Jerilynn invited us over for a birthday dinner for me! It was so nice. Gramma and Grampa joined us and we had a lovely spread of food! Ham with pineapple and cherries, scalloped potatoes, homegrown beans, fresh bread, squash with cranberries and carrots, and ice cream cake for dessert. I was so blessed! Her and Joe gave me a beautiful gerbra daisy too… my favorite!
We were there until about 1:30 am and just enjoyed chatting and connecting with them again! Though Jer doesn’t know it… the simple act of having a dinner for me spoke volumns (as I write that it sounds a little self centered… but know that’s not the intention!). I felt disconnected to the “only” family we had here and I needed this evening so much. It was a small act that I'll remember for awhile.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

Vista Print


So yesterday I got a package in the mail. Of course I was curious and excited to see what was inside. Vista print sent a whole bunch of stuff with my name on it!! Okay.. it's advertising... I know, but I was still blessed none the less! They sent note cards and envelopes, sticky notes with "sheet music" on them (like how did they know I love music?!?!), a keychain that says "Renee's keys" and the most exciting... a grocery list with little check boxes beside each line!! Jon kyboshed putting the keychain on the Escape keys because he said it was too cheesy, but I think the mail key will have a whole new look! So yeah... the little things that make my day!

Friday, February 20, 2009

Muffin Flop

I am so ready to toss in the apron and be done. For some reason I can no longer make moist, tender, scrumptous, gobble-em-up muffins. Since we’ve been married I have repeatedly been disappointed with the outcome. I’ve blamed it on the oven, on the little paper muffin cup brand, on my mixing ability… but never the pan. I was complaining to my best friend about my woes and she said she had the exact same problem… the muffins were always too dark on the bottom. She found it to be the non-stick pans she was using. I too have used non-stick pans everytime… so today I’m trying my silicone ones. And by golly… this better work!!

Doubting Thomas

Jon has always been a great gift giver… he comes up with funny, creative, and thoughtful gifts. So why did I think my birthday would be any different? I kind of found out where he was getting one of my birthday gifts from and started looking through the flyer. He made a comment of there being limited quantities so he really hoped he could get it. Through the process of elimination I decided it was a new ironing board. Yup. Okay – sure I would like one with a fun cover that makes me smile as I’m ironing away… just not for my birthday! I convinced myself that I would be excited and surprised when he presented it to me. But… the lady from the store phoned and said the label maker we ordered wouldn’t be here for a few weeks and asked if that was okay! A label maker! I was so humbled (for doubting) and proud! My husband knows me so well… I love organization and it will be so fun to label all my Tupperware and Rubbermaid storage containers. So… no more snooping! I'm just going to be surprised in a few days!

She Only Turns One Once

I know... you only turn any age once... but I am SO excited about Alia’s first birthday! I’ve been searching online for ideas, designing the cake, planning the menu, deciding on favors, drawing out different invitation ideas, going over the guest list… I love it! Part of me wants to share everything I’m planning, and the other part wants to keep it a surprise. So… all I’m gonna say for now is it’s a brown and pink polka dot theme. And that I’m really trying to keep it simple... Jon is doing very good at helping me with that!!

Hopeless

It has just been one of those weeks… and it doesn’t help that we’ve been cooped up in the house everyday except Tuesday. I found myself crying off and on most of Wednesday. I just felt (and still feel?) that it’s hopeless. I like living here because of the location, the community, the benefits our government offers, and the wonderful job Jon has, etc.… but having very few family and friends around is taking its toll. I know we can’t move home with the economy the way it is, but I feel we just can’t stay here either. We are depriving Alia of some of the most important family relationships... it’s not fair to her, or to them. It’s an inner struggle that I’ve yet to find peace with.

Thankfully, in times such as these, two wonderful friends are here for encouragement… and to remind me that MB isn’t all that bad! These two women are such a blessing to me!

Swimsuit Madness

ARGH! After spending hours looking online for the “perfect, quality, slimming swimsuit”, re-measuring and re-measuring to get the correct size, and agonizing over spending ridiculous amounts for something so simple… I finally ordered what I thought would be a great suit. And upon trying it on, ended up frustrated and in tears! It was too small. Jon tried to be positive… “No, hunny it looks okay, really.” “I know, but you’ve never had a baby before.” It was no use. I still felt miserable!
I’ve lost all my “baby weight” and am even less than before I got pregnant… but things are just different. So… I re-ordered the next size up and we’re giving it one more go around. If that doesn’t work then we’ll have to head to the city, I guess.

But feeling this… blah… has got me thinking. Jon and Mark (his teaching buddy) are running a relay marathon in early summer. They asked if I wanted to join them and I just laughed! But ya know what… I think it would be really good. I would have a goal and a purpose behind running. And since I hate running so much… a purpose is needed! I think my leg of the race would only be 6 miles. Ha... “only 6 miles”...easier said than done. But I really think this is something I want to do, although I'm quite nervous! So… it looks like I need to dust my runners off. And pray for warm weather, I’m not dedicated enough to run in this brutal ness!

He Loves Me!

Valentine’s day has never been a big deal to me. As a kid my parents would spoil us with sweet cards, heart shaped chocolates, red candies, and delicious sugar cookies… so that’s kind of what Valentine’s day means to me. Whether Jon or I do something special isn’t a big deal, really. This year we planned on seeing “Fireproof” (which is quite good by the way… I recommend it!) and I thought that was the extent of it. But Jon surprised me with Lindt chocolate (my favorite!), flowers, and he even made me a heart shaped pizza! It was just so sweet...

And She's Off

It’s official. Alia has figured out the whole crawling thing. Once she got it down there was no stopping her… by suppertime she was motoring around the house! It’s so cute! But I have to admit… my job has just gotten a little more complex! I actually locked her out of the office the other day… I know, what a bad mom! I just wanted to quickly finish up something without her getting into stuff. The poor girl had her face pressed against the French door making the saddest face she could muster! I can’t help but stick my lip out now as I think about it!

With crawling comes a whole new realm of safety precautions. Before I was pregnant I bought a whole whack load of baby safety stuff on clearance. After a few attempts to stick her fingers in the light socket I figured it was time to take action! When all was said and done… out of 2 big boxes of safety devices… I used 2 things. The light socket plugs (which Jon still thinks is ridiculous!) and this little cupboard lock thing for under the sink. Really now… why would I need to lock the refrigerator and the dishwasher (which we don’t have), shorten all the cords, cover the VCR slot, and bolt every cupboard closed?! Maybe I’m too laid back, but are parents just leaving their children alone for days on end? It’s crazy. So the new plan is to teach Alia what she’s allowed to touch and what she isn’t. Makes sense to me. I’m new at this whole game… so time will tell how my method works!

Excuses, Excuses

Sorry… it’s been a really long time since I’ve blogged. But I have 2 good excuses! 1. Our laptop just randomly shuts down. Blink, and it’s gone. So it’s been a little frustrating lately, but I’m thankful we even have a computer! 2. Nothing really exciting has happened. With that being said… I have decided to blog regardless of excitement level. It’s a way of staying connected and getting out my thoughts. So… yeah.

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Pearly Whites


Now that Alia has her first (and second) tooth I realize I have nothing to blame her crankiness on. I mean... it was easy to just smile and say "She's teething..." whenever her behavior wasn't quite like the little darling we know she can be! But... these last two teething weeks have been anything but unpleasant. Hopefully this trend will continue and if not well, we've got the line down pat!

Warmth... at last!

Today was so glorious! The temps were just below freezing, the sun was shining, and the wind was basically non existant. Oh, so nice! Alia and I bundled up, along with a friend and her two kids, and went for a walk. It felt wonderful to get outside again! I'm now realizing why Manitobians spend so much time outside in the summer... they're soaking up as much warmth as they can! The count down until spring is officially on for me...although I really have no idea when that starts up here! I have hope that winter is almost over... and that Florida is just around the corner!